

I PERSONALLY ALWAYS ADMIRED MY SISTERS, MY AUNTIES… AND I LEARNED EVERYTHING I KNOW FROM MY MOTHER. THERE WAS NO 100-STEP ROUTINE: ANY SOAP, JUST WASH YOUR FACE. DRENCH YOURSELF IN SHEA BUTTER AT NIGHT. SHE WOULD ALWAYS HAVE A PIXIE. I’D WATCH HER SLICK HER HAIR BACK WITH A SUNLIGHT SOAP BAR—
YEAH, IT WOULD DRY DOWN LIKE GEL. I DON’T KNOW, I FEEL LIKE SHE INVENTED THAT! SHE’D PUT FOUNDATION ON LIKE IT WAS LOTION. EYELINER, ALWAYS. ALWAYS HAD TO HAVE MASCARA, A RED LIP. OR BLACK LINER ON THE LIP——THAT WAS HER STAPLE. I STARTED DOING THAT, TOO, FROM AS YOUNG AS I CAN REMEMBER. I WOULD STEAL MY MUM’S MASCARA AND EYELINER, HIDE IT IN MY BAG, AND PUT IT ON IN THE SCHOOL BATHROOM WITH MY FRIENDS.
GROWING UP IN A MIXED FAMILY, YOU SEE ALL DIFFERENT SHADES OF BEAUTY. MY OLDER SISTERS ARE SUPER LIGHT, I’M IN THE MIDDLE WITH MY BROTHER, AND MY YOUNGEST SISTER IS THE DARKEST. IT’S SO IMPORTANT TO FIND BEAUTY IN EVERY SKIN TONE. AND I’VE LEARNED SO MUCH ABOUT HAIR—IT’S SUCH A LIVING CULTURE—BUT IN OUR COMMUNITY, IT’S HARD TO GROW UP WITH HAIR THAT’S CURLY, BIG, AND NATURAL. IN SOUTH AFRICA, OR MAYBE JUST EVERYWHERE, IT WAS HARD TO EMBRACE. GENERATIONS BEFORE US, DUE TO TRAUMA I SUPPOSE, HAD A LOT OF SELF-HATRED. STRAIGHTENING OUR HAIR WAS A THING. IF IT WAS FRIZZY, IT WAS CONSIDERED UNTIDY. I GOT OUT OF THAT MINDSET REAL QUICK, THANKS TO YOUTUBE! I WOULD ALWAYS WATCH TUTORIALS BY [AFRICANAMERICAN] GIRLS THAT LOOKED LIKE ME: HOW THEY WOULD DO THEIR HAIR, HOW THEY WOULD LOVE IT AND CARE FOR IT. THAT MADE ME LOVE MY HAIR. I LEARNED HOW TO STYLE IT AND TAUGHT MY LITTLE SISTER, TOO.

I DON’T THINK IT WAS A CERTAIN AGE. I ALWAYS LOVED MY HAIR, AND OUR PARENTS ALWAYS LOVED OUR HAIR. THEY TAUGHT US ABOUT OUR HISTORY AND HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO LOVE OURSELVES. IT WAS MORE SO OUTSIDE PRESSURE. SHARING [MY CURLS] WITH MY SISTERS WAS KIND OF A GIRLHOOD THING. I WOULD BRAID THEIR HAIR—
YES, I KNOW HOW TO CORNROW! I WAS TASKED WITH CORNROWING MY SISTERS’ HAIR, BRAIDING IT, PUTTING IT IN BUNS—AND I LOVED IT.
I MEAN, I WORK WITH A LOT OF AMAZING PEOPLE. PERSONALLY, I JUST LIKE WHAT I LIKE, WHEN I LIKE IT. I KNOW WHAT I WANT TO FEEL LIKE EACH DAY. IN GENERAL, I LOVE BRAIDS—THAT’S MY GO-TO. STRAIGHT BACK, SIMPLE; THEY’RE JUST SO CHIC AND ELEVATED TO ME. THAT’S TYLA, AT MY CORE. AND WHEN I GET TO PLAY, I WANT TO PLAY FOR REAL. IT’S BEEN EXCITING TO EXPERIMENT. I WANT TO HAVE FUN.
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I DANCE IN THE MIRROR A LOT… WITHOUT CLOTHES! OMG, me too! But clothed. [LAUGHS.] AS A WOMAN, IT’S SO IMPORTANT TO LOOK AT YOURSELF. I KNOW IT’S HARD; IT’S HARD FOR ME TOO SOMETIMES. YOU’RE NOT ALWAYS GOING TO LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF. BUT YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE AND YOU’RE GOING TO BE THAT FOREVER, SO BEST TO EMBRACE IT.
DEFINITELY MY BODY. YOU KNOW, SOUTH AFRICAN GIRLS HAVE INSANE BODIES!
GROWING UP, I ALWAYS FELT VERY SLIM. I DIDN’T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH [MY BODY]. OBVIOUSLY, I’VE GOTTEN TO A POINT WHERE I FIND BEAUTY IN IT. AND OF COURSE I LOVE MY HAIR, BUT I WOULD COMPARE IT TO [OTHER] GIRLS’, ESPECIALLY IN PRIMARY SCHOOL, SINCE I WENT TO A PREDOMINANTLY WHITE SCHOOL. GIRLS HAD LONGER HAIR THAN ME, OR CERTAIN HAIRSTYLES THAT I COULDN’T DO.

I JUST ALWAYS DANCED! IT’S SO BIG IN OUR CULTURE, YOU JUST COME OUT THE WOMB DANCING. EVERY FAMILY GATHERING, EVERY PARTY, EVERY FUNCTION, THERE ARE ALWAYS DANCE CIRCLES, THERE’S MUSIC. MY AUNTS TAUGHT ME MOVES; I WAS TAUGHT BELLY DANCING AT 5 YEARS OLD. LATER ON, I WOULD DOWNLOAD THE LATEST YOUTUBE VIDEOS FROM PLAYGROUND LA, SLOW THEM DOWN, AND LEARN THE CHOREOGRAPHY STEP BY STEP. AND THEN I MET MY CHOREOGRAPHER, LEE-CHÉ [JANECKE].
YEAH! I REALLY EVOLVED MY DANCING WITH HIM. HONESTLY, I REALLY LIKE TO JUST VIBE ON STAGE. I DON’T WANT TO FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO EXECUTE STEPS TWO, THREE, FOUR. LEE-CHÉ IS AMAZING, AND WE HAVE SUCH A SYNERGY. HE’LL TEACH ME A LOT, BUT HE KNOWS I MIGHT DO THE DANCE IN THE SHOW, OR I MIGHT NOT. I WANT TO FEEL FREE, FEEL THE MUSIC, FEEL THE ENERGY OF THE AUDIENCE—AND JUST HAVE A GOOD TIME.
SOCIAL MEDIA WILL REALLY MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU NEED TO BE PERFECT, WHICH IS SO UNREALISTIC. THERE’S SO MUCH BEAUTY IN IMPERFECTION… EVEN IN TEETH! IT’S SUCH A BIG THING NOW TO HAVE PERFECTLY STRAIGHT WHITE TEETH, WHICH DOESN’T MAKE SENSE TO ME. KNOWING THERE’S ONLY ONE OF YOU, AND ONLY YOU LOOK THAT WAY—THE WAY YOU CARRY YOURSELF KNOWING THAT IS TRUE BEAUTY.

DEFINITELY, IT’S HAPPENED BEFORE. I’VE GOTTEN BACK A LOT OF PICTURES WHERE A LOT IS EDITED OUT.
THE MOLE…
I’M TELLING YOU! I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE EDIT MY BODY, MY WAIST. LEAVE IT ALONE!
IT’S CALLED A-POP. INITIALLY, GOING INTO THIS PROJECT, I WAS NERVOUS—LIKE, “WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE?” BUT I REALISED THAT THE MUSIC REALLY REFLECTS WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE, AND THE WAY THE NEW ALBUM SOUNDS CAME ON ITS OWN, IT FELL INTO PLACE. I HAD NO DIRECT INTENTION. IT’S MORE A REFLECTION OF WHAT I WAS FEELING IN THE MOMENT, WHAT I WAS LIVING THROUGH IN THE MAKING OF IT. THERE ARE SOME EXCITING FEATURES—BUT THOSE ARE ALL STILL UNDER WRAPS FOR NOW!





